Okay, so I said a while ago that I was making some changes. Then life happened. And this little corner of my world was neglected and set aside. I did make some behind the scenes changes. Nothing that the average reader would notice. Yet, for some strange reason there has been a lot of traffic through here lately. Not sure why. But hello again. I’m back.
I’ve been thinking a lot lately about memories. Not anything on a scientific level, as in what makes a memory, why do we remember some things but not others. But of actual memories. Events from my childhood, my high school years, and into my adult years. Although I’m still not convinced I’m actually an adult yet. But that’s for another post.
I grew up in an amazing neighborhood. It was a dead end street. Everyone knew each other, all the kids played together. The older kids would babysit the younger kids, and as the younger ones grew up, the responsibility was passed on. We would walk to the zoo, play in the park nearby, run in and out of each others houses whenever we were awake. The parents would get together on someone’s front porch during summer evenings while the kids tore up and down the street on their bikes, played kick the can, hide and seek or any other game we could come up with. We weren’t worried about kidnappers, predators, or any other scary monster, other than the old man that lived in that house. I don’t know why all the kids were afraid of him. I’m sure he was a very nice man.
We had block parties every 4th of July. The street would be closed off, the kids would decorate their bikes for a parade, games were organized, the fire hydrant opened up for everyone to cool off in, and food would be served. One side of the street was responsible for dessert, the other side for the vegetable/salad/side dish. That responsibility would alternate every year, and you could always count on certain families to bring their specialty creations. Each house would bring their own meat to grill. Hot dogs, hamburgers, steaks, kielbasa, chicken, anything that could be cooked on grill probably was represented there. We would set up tables and chairs in big rows. Families combining to make even bigger groups, until you couldn’t tell where one ended and the next one began. After the fun and festivities of the day, the evening would be filled with more games, a pinata, square dancing, sparklers, and even some fireworks. Laughter filled the night air, and no one wanted the day to end. I’m happy to say the tradition of the block party continues, with the old families that remain sharing the tradition with the new families that have embraced the neighborhood.
It definitely was a different time back then, and the neighborhood has gone through some changes. I’ve been gone from there for many years, as have many of the other families I grew up with. But taking a trip back through, walking down the old cobblestone street, there are still certain aspects that remain the same. And while the street looks smaller to my grown up eyes, the memories are just as big as if it was yesterday, and not so many years ago.
Loved having you give me a reason to think about my neighborhood growing up. After returning to see it after 20 years had me thinking of many changes in people and parenting. It was amazing to see how far we walked to/from school, to the river, and to the neighborhood store without any supervision. Now parents wouldn’t think of letting their kids roam like we did. I think our town has no more crime now than it did when I was in elementary school so as a society getting too protective and paranoid?
Yay! I love responses like this. So glad you had an opportunity to revisit some hopefully very fond memories.
I think we have gotten too over protective of our kids these days. All the safety rules and regulations have seriously gotten out of hand. Partially due to lawsuit happy people, and also partly due to just the utter lack of personal responsibility. Everyone wants it all to be easy, no one wants to do the hard work.
I’ll be curious to hear what others think too.